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Being a slut, to my mind, was mostly fun – wearing and doing what you liked

Being a slut, to my mind, was mostly fun – wearing and doing what you liked

he first time I was called it, I am not sure I knew exactly what it meant. I was being told off. I was always being told off. I had rolled up the waistband of my green pleated skirt to make it shorter, as we all did. Miss Shipp took me aside and told me I looked like a slut. I was 11. I was to become well versed in the ways of sluthood, which were many and varied. Eating chips in the street was sluttish, apparently. Talking to boys while wearing your school uniform was the height of slutdom. "I'll just take mine off then Miss," I said, which I thought was hilariously witty. To be a slut was, to my mind, mostly fun, and to do with wearing and doing what you liked. My mum told me that when she had wanted pierced ears and my grandma said that was sluttish, she walked into the hall, stood i...
In defence of being a slut

In defence of being a slut

Let’s talk about sluts. Because between you and me I think they are on to something. By the looks of things these ladies are possibly the only ones getting it right and it’s time that everyone embraces the advantages of being a slut with open arms. After all sluts don’t care that they are doing a walk of shame though campus on a Tuesday afternoon, they just stuff their knickers into their bag, hold up two (metaphorical) fingers to those raising their eyebrows, safe in the knowledge that they know something these frigid bitches don’t and enjoying themselves along the way. So wear your scarlet A with pride, stop slut shaming and begin slut celebrating. Sex is better when you’re a slag Let’s be brutally honest here, first time sex with someone you’re dating is not all silk shee...
10 Qualities Of A Sexually Confident Woman

10 Qualities Of A Sexually Confident Woman

When you see a sexually confident woman, you know it. That’s because she has a radiance about her and a magnetic energy that others are drawn to. She has a strong sense of her body, her sexuality and her feminine power and knows that this is fundamental to her success in life, work and her relationships. Women want to be her and men want to have her. HERE ARE SOME CHARACTERISTICS OF A SEXUALLY CONFIDENT WOMAN: She shines bright like a supernova A sexually confident woman doesn’t dim her light just so that everyone will like her. Instead, she shines brightly so that everyone can see her. She’s not afraid of being the center of attention. She’s confident in who she is and what she has to offer to the world. She’s comfortable in her own skin and knows that being authentic to her...
What Are The Best  Sex Toys Alternative To Try

What Are The Best Sex Toys Alternative To Try

Generally, men who want to spice up their daily life are not against the idea of using butt plugs. However, instead of acquiring a classic product from https://lovegasm.co/, it may be interesting to be innovative and use home Made Sex Toys. A little DIY in Do It yourself mode We know that everyone's pleasure is important, but men sometimes have some difficulties to satisfy Madame. Many couples decide to head to a sexshop to find the rare pearl that can help you reach seventh heaven. It is necessary to specify that a woman likes to feel unique, so it is interesting to start making a small gift that should quickly fill his heart and his expectations. As a result, the sextoy can now join the concept of Do It Yourself. It has grown considerably in recent years especially...
5 Facts About Latex Allergy That You Need To Know

5 Facts About Latex Allergy That You Need To Know

Products containing latex, egg gloves, balloons and condoms, may cause allergic reactions, including in combination with food. The latex is extracted from the tree Heavebrasiliensis. Ten or twenty years ago, latex allergy was considered an occupational disease, affecting mainly people working in the medical community. Allergic reactions are most often manifested by local urticarial, sometimes by dangerous reactions such as swelling of the face, breathing difficulties or shock. Causes and triggers of latex allergy   Due to its physical characteristics, its pleasing appearance and its favorable price, latex is used in many products. Several proteins present in the latex can trigger allergies. You will have to explore the Different types of latex...
7 Things To Consider When Choosing Yoni Eggs

7 Things To Consider When Choosing Yoni Eggs

Yoni eggs are a kind of female intimate trainer. You have probably heard about the balls of Ben-w, the Kegel exercises, thanks to which the muscles of the female vagina become manageable. Yoni eggs - another woman's assistant in the workout of intimate muscles. Moreover, this simulator is not an invention of modernity when the Chinese imperial court concubine with the help of training with Yoni eggs remained skilled mistresses, even after repeated childbirth. Also techniques for training intimate muscles, including using Yoni eggs, were used by priestesses, geishas, ??the mere mention of which was associated at all times with the masters of the highest class in the work of love joys. In this artcle you will get a clear idea about which gemstone yoni egg is best, like this one: https://yo...
Crazy Sex Toys That You Can Use in Public

Crazy Sex Toys That You Can Use in Public

Using a sex toy in public is something few people have the confidence to do. It might be an LGBTQ issue but the thought of climaxing in a public area and having to keep quiet is too much for some people but, for others, like me, it’s a thrill-seeking experience that I urge everyone to try at least once. Not just for reaching orgasm, some people use sex-related items in public to prevent orgasm, like using cock cage to respond booty calls, if you don't want to have orgasm. Constantly using cock cage improves semen quality, so be on the good side of kinks. This is the cock cage popular in London. I wanted to show you my sex toys that I use in public and what each of them does and more importantly, what each of them allows you to achieve. Roaming around the supermarket is no longer a c...
How To Have A Meaningful Quickie

How To Have A Meaningful Quickie

At some point in history (we're not quite sure when) people started making a distinction between having sex and "making love." The implication is that only certain types of intimate and meaningful sex, usually meaning long, luxurious, and gentle sex. Making love surely does not include hot, quick, "gotta-have-you-now" sex — aka, a "quickie." "When people think about quickies they think either about a sperm donor duty or something that's slutty, but it's really just a kind of sex that can be extremely satisfying and erotic," says Elle Chase, a certified sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex. "There’s no shame in a quickie." Having a quickie can be just as meaningful as spending hours worshiping your partner's body, she says. But, to make it meaningf...
10 Tips for Watching Porn With Your Partner

10 Tips for Watching Porn With Your Partner

When it comes to solo-pleasuring, everyone has their go-to strategy to get themselves going. For some people it’s visualizing erotic fantasy, for others it might be the extra stimulation of a toy or vibrator, but for many of us watching porn is the preferred method for getting in the mood. Anyone with an Internet connection has access to a seeming array of infinite porn choices -- every fantasy you’ve ever had is available with the click of your conveniently one-handed mouse. So if so many of us are enjoying porn on our own, wouldn’t it make sense to start enjoying it together? A recent comprehensive study showed that around 50% of people have watched porn as a couple, so the idea is hardly far-fetched. Yet for those of us who have yet to take the plunge, this can feel like a scary,...
How to start using sex toys with your partner

How to start using sex toys with your partner

“Why use sex toys?” our amazing Sex Educator, Laura Delarato, begins. She’s cracking jokes and making sure everyone feels comfortable. It’s 9:00 pm on a Wednesday. I’m sitting in a class at The Pleasure Chest on the Upper East Side learning about how to incorporate sex toys into the bedroom. I’m here because I’m sexually inexperienced and my love life sucks. After a five-year dry spell, I’m trying to get my mojo back by exploring the sex and dating scene of New York City. I’m a total noob when it comes to sex toys. I barely use them alone, let alone with a partner. I want to because I believe good sex is part of a healthy relationship. I’m hoping that I’ll find a partner who wants to explore. I’m taking copious notes, just in case I ever have sex again. Laura starts by clearing the ...